Titles for Transgender Day of Remembrance

By Coll Rowe | November 19 2021 | Gender and Sexuality Studies

November 20th is Transgender Day of Remembrance, which honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. We’ve put together a list of books to spread awareness about the lives of transgender people and provide educational resources on gender.

 

Gender Outlaw

Gender Outlaw was decades ahead of its time when it was first published in 1994. Now, some twenty-odd years later, this book stands as both a classic and a still-revolutionary work—one that continues to push us gently but profoundly to the furthest borders of the gender frontier.

 

Tomorrow Will Be Different

Informative, heartbreaking, and profoundly empowering, Tomorrow Will Be Different is Sarah McBride’s story of love and loss and a powerful entry point into the LGBTQIA+ community’s battle for equal rights and what it means to be openly transgender. 

 

Dear Senthuran

In this extraordinary memoir, Akwaeke Emezi weaves through transformative decisions about their gender and body, their precipitous path to success as a writer, and the turmoil of relationships on an emotional, romantic, and spiritual plane, culminating in a book that is as tender as it is brutal.

 

Unbound 

In this powerful, timely, and eye-opening account, Arlene Stein documents the varied ways younger trans men see themselves, drawing from dozens of interviews with transgender people and their friends and families, as well as with activists and medical and psychological experts.

 

Becoming Nicole

Here is the inspiring true story of a transgender girl, her identical twin brother, and an ordinary American family’s extraordinary journey to understand, nurture, and celebrate the uniqueness in us all. It’s a story of standing up for your beliefs and yourself—and it will inspire all of us to do the same.

 

Sissy 

A deeply personal story of trauma and healing, a powerful reflection on gender and self-acceptance, Sissy is a heart-wrenching and eye-opening memoir about what it’s like to grow up not sure if you’re (a) a boy, (b) a girl, (c) something in between, or (d) all of the above.

 

Fairest

Here is a singular, beautifully written coming-of-age memoir of a Filipino boy with albinism whose story travels from an immigrant childhood to Harvard to a gender transition and navigates through the complex spheres of race, class, sexuality, and the author’s place within the gay community. 

 

She’s Not There

She’s Not There is the unconventional memoir of a person who changes genders, a portrait of a loving marriage that withstands a radical change, and a revealing look at society’s folly in over-emphasizing the importance of fixed gender roles. Jennifer Boylan explores the dramatic outward changes and unexpected results of life as a woman.

 

Burn the Page

Burn the Page is an inspirational memoir-meets-manifesto by Danica Roem, the nation’s first openly trans person elected to US state legislature, about how it’s possible to set fire to the stories you don’t want to be in anymore and rewrite your own future, whether that’s running for politics, in your work, or your personal life.


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Gender Outlaw
On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us
978-1-101-97324-0
“I know I’m not a man . . . and I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m probably not a woman, either. . . . . The trouble is, we’re living in a world that insists we be one or the other.” With these words, Kate Bornstein ushers readers on a funny, fearless, and wonderfully scenic journey across the terrains of gender and identity.
$18.00 US
Nov 15, 2016
Paperback
320 Pages
Vintage

Tomorrow Will Be Different
Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality
978-1-5247-6148-6
“A brave, powerful memoir” (People) that will change the way we look at identity and equality in this country, from the activist elected as the first openly transgender state senator in U.S. history
$17.00 US
Mar 05, 2019
Paperback
304 Pages
Crown

Unbound
Transgender Men and the Remaking of Identity
978-1-101-97249-6
Unbound is an intimate portrait of a new generation of transmasculine individuals as they undergo gender transitions.
$16.95 US
May 14, 2019
Paperback
352 Pages
Vintage

Becoming Nicole
The inspiring story of transgender actor-activist Nicole Maines and her extraordinary family
978-0-8129-9543-5
The inspiring true story of transgender actor and activist Nicole Maines, whose identical twin brother, Jonas, and ordinary American family join her on an extraordinary journey to understand, nurture, and celebrate the uniqueness in us all.
$19.00 US
Jun 07, 2016
Paperback
320 Pages
Random House Trade Paperbacks

Sissy
A Coming-of-Gender Story
978-0-7352-1884-0
"Transformative ... If Tobia aspires to the ranks of comic memoirists like David Sedaris and Mindy Kaling, Sissy succeeds." —The New York Times Book Review
$18.00 US
Mar 03, 2020
Paperback
352 Pages
G.P. Putnam's Sons

Fairest
A Memoir
978-0-525-56132-3
"Talusan sails past the conventions of trans and immigrant memoirs." —The New York Times Book Review
$18.00 US
Jun 08, 2021
Paperback
320 Pages
Penguin Books

She's Not There
A Life in Two Genders
978-0-385-34697-9
She’s Not There is the unconventional memoir of a person who changes genders, a portrait of a loving marriage that withstands a radical change, and a revealing look at society’s folly in over-emphazing the importance of fixed gender roles.
$20.00 US
Apr 30, 2013
Paperback
352 Pages
Crown

Burn the Page
A True Story of Torching Doubts, Blazing Trails, and Igniting Change
978-0-593-29655-4
An inspirational memoir-meets-manifesto by Danica Roem, the nation's first openly trans person elected to US state legislature
$27.00 US
Apr 26, 2022
Hardcover
320 Pages
Viking