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Berlin, 1939-1945

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An astonishing account of life under a murderous regime amid a great city’s descent into utter annihilation

In 1939, when Ian Buruma’s epic opens, Berlin has been under Nazi rule for six years, and its 4.3 million people have made their accommodations to the regime, more or less. When war broke out with Poland in September, what was most striking at first was how little changed. Unless you were Jewish. Then life, already hard, was soon to get unfathomably worse.

Buruma gives tender attention to the Jewish experience in Berlin during the war, weaving its thread into the broader fabric of this marvelously rich and vivid mosaic of urban life. The distillation of a broad-gauged reckoning with a vast trove of primary sources, including a surprising number of interviews with living survivors, the book is a study in extremes—depravity and resilience, moral blindness and moral courage, pious bigotry and unchecked hedonism.

By 1943, with the German defeat at Stalingrad, ordinary life in Berlin would acquire an increasingly desperate cast. The last three years of the war in Berlin are truly a descent into hell, with a deranged regime in desperate free fall, an increasingly relentless pounding from Allied bombers, and the mounting dread of the approaching Soviet army. The common greeting of Berliners was now not “Auf wiedersehen” or “Heil Hitler” but “Bleiben Sie übrig”—“Stay alive.” And by war’s end Berlin’s population had fallen by almost half.

Among the people trying to stay alive in the city was Ian Buruma’s own father, a Dutch student conscripted into forced labor in the war economy along with 400,000 other imported workers. Buruma gives due weight to his and their experiences, which give the book a special added dimension. This is a book full of tenderness and genuine heroism, but it is by no means sentimental: again and again we see that most people do not do the hard thing most of the time. Most people go along. It’s a lesson that has not lost its timeliness.
One

POLAND REJECTS PEACE!

POLISH ATTACKS ON THE REICH!!

RADIO GLEIWITZ OCCUPIED!

Headlines in the Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger, a popular Berlin newspaper, September 1, 1939

These were complete lies. The beginning of World War II began as a deadly theatrical performance staged by the SS. Hitler wanted to invade Poland, so an excuse had to be invented. Poles were cast as the aggressors. On the night of August 31, in an operation named "Grandmother Died," the Gleiwitz radio station on the German side of the Polish border was "attacked" by German agents disguised in Polish uniforms. A brief anti-German message was broadcast in Polish. To make the imaginary act of Polish aggression seem more plausible, the corpses of a few "Polish" attackers were left on the site. They were in fact murdered concentration camp prisoners dressed up as Poles.

Similar deceptions were staged at other places along the Polish-German border, an area where Polish-and German-speaking populations had been at home for centuries, not always amicably. In a place named Hochlinden, not far from Gleiwitz, a German customs post was attacked on the same night by a number of men in Polish army uniforms. (They also sported heavy beards and sideburns, to make them look more "Polish"-in German eyes, that is.) A show was made of repulsing the attack by men dressed up as German border guards. All of them were Nazi commandos. Again, a few unfortunate concentration camp prisoners were forced to play their roles as Polish soldiers killed in the make-believe skirmish. Photographs of the murdered men were sent to Berlin as evidence of Polish belligerence.

At ten o'clock, on the following night, Hitler, dressed in the grayish-green uniform of the German army, the Wehrmacht, made a speech to members of the Reichstag, a rubber-stamp parliament now hastily assembled in the Kroll Opera House in Berlin's Tiergarten district. Since the Reichstag building itself had been heavily damaged in 1933 by an arson attack that the Nazis might have staged themselves as an excuse to crack down on political opponents, the opera house now had to do. Many seats were empty, since their occupants were away on military duty. The stage, upon which great new music by Hindemith and Schoenberg had once been performed, now had a gaudy backdrop of a giant eagle with a swastika in its claws, flanked by massive red, white, and black Nazi flags. When Hitler's speech reached its sweaty, fist-shaking climax of screaming bombast, the uniformed delegates stomped and cheered like brawlers in a beer hall. Hitler claimed that Germany had had no choice but to respond to Polish hostility with maximum force. "This night," he barked, "for the first time, Polish regular soldiers fired on our territory. Since 5:45 a.m. we have been returning the fire, and from now on bombs will be met by bombs."

Hitler's speech was broadcast on the radio, and through loudspeakers in the streets. The Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger described the scene around the opera house: "The night of August 31 and September 1 was a short one for Berliners. . . . Long after midnight, thousands of people stood on Wilhelmplatz to be near their Führer, as they always do at decisive hours for the German Volk." The next day, warm late-summer weather had given way to gray skies. The city was relatively calm. People went about their normal business. By nightfall, however, "columns of SA [Brownshirts] and SS men came marching in to form an honor guard, and Berliners stood behind this brown and black honor guard to get a glimpse of the Führer and his loyal officials, and especially to hear his long-awaited speech to the Reichstag. . . . Every time one of the Nazi leaders was recognized by the crowd, he was greeted with a storm of applause." There was Field Marshal Hermann Goering, smirking in his black Mercedes with satin furnishing, holding his diamond-studded baton; and there was beetle-browed Rudolph Hess; and there was Joachim von Ribbentrop, the former champagne salesman now strutting around like a great statesman in a black SS uniform. The report continues: "The crowd became more excited by the minute until the Führer's car, followed by his entourage, left the chancellery. The crowd exploded in a terrific storm of cheers. On this fateful day for the German people, the Führer once again inspired the stormy passion of Berliners."

"Storm" (Sturm) and "stormy" (stürmisch), like "fanatical" (fanatisch), were among the most common clichés in the Nazi lexicon.

This report, too, was a lie. Witnesses to the event were struck by the empty streets, the sparse crowds, and an atmosphere of glum indifference, or tense foreboding. When the invasion of Poland, which failed to arouse the kind of "stormy" enthusiasm reported in the Nazi press, provoked declarations of war by Britain and France on September 3, the mood was even more anxious. The patriotic fervor that had greeted the early stages of World War I in 1914 was nowhere to be seen. William Shirer, Berlin correspondent for CBS radio, was there, on Wilhelmplatz, "when the loudspeakers suddenly announced that England had declared herself at war with Germany. Some two hundred and fifty people were standing there in the sun. They listened attentively to the announcement. When it was finished there was not a murmur. They just stood there as they were before. Stunned. The people cannot realize yet that Hitler has led them into a world war. No issue has been created for them yet, though as this day wears on, it is plain that 'Albion's perfidy' will become the issue, as it did in 1914."

And yet, it was different this time. In Shirer's words: "Today, no excitement, no hurrahs, no cheering, no throwing of flowers, no war fever, no war hysteria. There is not even hate for the French and British-despite Hitler's proclamations to the people, the party, the East Army, the West Army, accusing the 'English warmongers and capitalistic Jews' of starting this war."

Helmuth James von Moltke, a young lawyer, Prussian aristocrat, British on his mother's side, and a convinced anti-Nazi (for which he would pay with his life just months before the end of the war), wrote in a letter to his wife, Freya, that he had seen Nevile Henderson, the British ambassador, emerge from the German foreign office on Wilhelmstrasse on September 3, after Britain declared war: "There were about three hundred to four hundred people, but no sound of disapproval, no whistling, not a word to be heard; you felt that they might applaud any moment. Quite incomprehensible."

These are of course just impressions. Quite what most Berliners really thought at the time is hard to know. Berlin was a cosmopolitan city, full of leftists, artists, radicals, and minorities. Hitler never trusted Berliners. And many Berliners didn't trust him, or indeed any central authority bossing them around. But since 1933, they were not free to talk, and there were obviously no opinion polls. There were convinced Nazis and Hitler worshippers, as well as many people who tried to get along by keeping their heads down. There were Berliners who hated everything about the Nazis, and a tiny number who would risk everything to actively resist them.

I used to know an eccentric figure in Berlin named Nicolaus Sombart. A sociologist, a dandy, a Francophile, and a literary man-about-town, he became best known in Berlin cultural circles in the 1980s and '90s for his Sunday afternoon salons, where tea and cakes were served in the spacious drawing room of his nineteenth-century apartment filled with heavy oak furniture and thick rugs on the parquet floor. One might meet scholars, celebrated novelists, artists, and pretty young women, often of Russian or Eastern European origin. His father, Werner Sombart, had been a famous academic star of late nineteenth- and early twentieth-century Germany, whose conservative critiques of capitalism, which he associated with the "Jewish spirit," helped prepare the way for National Socialism, even though Professor Sombart himself was far too refined and fastidious to join the ranks of what he saw as a crude and plebeian movement. To his son, Nicolaus, Werner Sombart represented the finest intellectual tradition of pre-Nazi Germany, a tradition of musical, artistic, and academic excellence carried by the cultivated upper-middle-class.

The first day of war was still vivid in Nicolaus's mind. He and his fellow pupils of a posh Gymnasium, or grammar school, listened to a patriotic speech by the school principal, followed by raised arms and cries of "Sieg Heil!" The pupils were then dismissed to enjoy the day off. Nicolaus rushed up the wooden stairs of his family home to his father's study. The venerable scholar was surprised to see his son back so early. The boy could barely contain his excitement; he was bursting to tell his father the news: "Hitler has declared war on Poland. Our German army has been marching into Poland since this morning!" Whereupon, the old man slowly removed his pince-nez. "Do you realize what this means?" "Of course," Nicolaus replied, "it means victory." A long silence. His father shook his head: "It means the end of Germany."

Nicolaus claimed that his father's reaction was typical of most people in the comfortable suburb of Berlin where they lived. Grunewald, with its huge fin de siècle villas, some built in the style of Gothic castles or mock Tudor manor houses, and its fine woods and lovely lakes, was a place where famous professors felt at home, as well as diplomats, bankers, and wealthy businessmen, quite a few of whom were of Jewish origin. The Jewish industrialist and statesman Walther Rathenau had lived in Grunewald, in a grand pastel-colored classicist villa. He was assassinated by right-wing fanatics in 1922, while being driven down Königsallee in his open car. Grunewald station, with its replica of a rustic nineteenth-century gate, was where the Jews of Berlin would be pushed onto the trains bound for the death camps in Poland, after being marched through the pleasant tree-lined streets. These marches took place in clear sight of the people who lived in the area, some of whom would have read newspaper articles such as this one in the Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger of September 19, 1939. "The Jews' War!" was the headline. It continued in the clichéd style of newspaper propaganda: "It has become an open secret that world Jewry and international high finance pushed us into a world war which they secretly caused. . . . Germany must declare a merciless war on our number one archenemy, and let one thing be very clear: We will wage this war . . ."

No doubt, some people in Grunewald despaired like Werner Sombart. Nicolaus had already witnessed how Jewish schoolmates suddenly vanished after 1938, when Jews were no longer allowed to attend public schools. He saw the For Sale signs in front of houses whose inhabitants had had to leave precipitously. Fine real estate was often grabbed for nothing, or for a pittance, by Nazi bosses. (Some of these same houses are now the property of hugely wealthy Russian oligarchs.) Once-great gardens had gone to seed. Certain family friends no longer came to the tea parties held by Nicolaus's mother on Sunday afternoons. The more fortunate ones were now in London, or Paris, or New York. Since April 1939, Berlin Jews had been forced to live in designated "Jew houses" (Judenhaüser), stuffed into tiny sordid apartments shared with other families. One of them was a relative of mine, named Hedwig Ems ("Tante Hedwig"), who, like other Jews in Berlin, was also ordered to hand over personal possessions, such as electrical appliances, artworks, furs, radios, silver, and gold. (An exception was made for gold tooth fillings, which were, so far, exempted.) In some cases, friends and neighbors offered to take care of these items, even if they had no room for them. Fine Persian carpets were kept in garden sheds and silver candelabras in dank cellars. Only rarely did these possessions ever find their way back into the hands of the original owners. And much of this happened even before German troops left for Poland in railway carriages bearing slogans daubed in white paint that read "Leaving for Poland, to kick the Jews."



Ruth Andreas-Friedrich, a journalist, not Jewish, was editing a magazine for young women when the war broke out. In her circle of friends-doctors, lawyers, journalists, musicians, writers, all solid members of the German upper bourgeoisie-there were quite a few "undesirables" in Nazi eyes. Her partner since 1931, the Russian German orchestra conductor Leo Borchard, who had once conducted the Berlin Philharmonic, was banned from performing in 1935: "politically unreliable." In 1938, Andreas-Friedrich, Borchard, and a circle of friends had formed a resistance group called Uncle Emil. Their main task was to protect Jews and help them escape. On September 1, the couple was invited over for tea by a lawyer, named Günther Flamm. Flamm, too, had been deprived of his job as an "unreliable." Like Borchard, he had to make ends meet as a private teacher. Flamm was in a somber mood. "This is going to be a long war," he said. "Heaven knows who'll be left alive at the end." "Certainly not Mr. Hitler," said Ruth. "What good will that do us," said Flamm, "if we bite the dust before he does?"

In Dahlem, another wealthy suburb, not so far from the comfortable Sombart residence in Grunewald, lived Christabel Bielenberg, an upper-class British woman (her mother was the sister of Alfred Harmsworth, 1st Viscount Northcliffe, the newspaper tycoon). After marrying a German lawyer named Peter Bielenberg in 1934, just a year after Hitler seized power, she became a German citizen. Both she and her husband were anti-Nazis, and friends of Helmuth von Moltke. She wrote in her memoir: "On the night after hearing that war had broken out between England and Germany I could not sleep." She felt very alone, "having somehow landed myself rather precariously straddling a fence. I was not apprehensive, life had been too good to me for that. I knew too that I was blessed with natural optimism and that my own interpretation of a simple Christian upbringing had provided me with a sturdy conviction as to the ultimate triumph of good over evil. In national terms, I had the sneaking feeling that by 'good' I had things British in mind, by 'evil' any foreigner stupid enough to dispute the matter." One didn't necessarily have to be British-born to have similar feelings.

Heinz "Coco" Schumann was a young guitarist with a great love of jazz, which Nazis tried to ban as "Niggermusik," an art form that supposedly presented a severe threat to the healthy morals of the German Volk. That his mother was Jewish would not necessarily have been a fatal problem, but because his Gentile father converted to the Jewish faith, the son was counted as a so-called Geltungsjude, a child of a mixed marriage who was classified as a Jew.
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Ian Buruma was born in the Netherlands. He studied Chinese at Leiden University and cinema at Nihon University, Tokyo. He has lived and worked in Tokyo, Hong Kong, London, and New York. He is a regular contributor to Harper’s and The New Yorker and writes monthly columns for Project Syndicate. He is a professor at Bard College and lives in New York City. View titles by Ian Buruma
“An immersive account . . . [A] wonderfully nuanced book.” The Guardian

“Buruma, professor at Bard College and author of Year Zero: A History of 1945 (2013), has a personal interest in the subject of his latest book: His father spent two years in Berlin, compelled to join 400,000 foreign factory workers, poorly fed and housed but paid a small salary. Buruma draws on a rich source of material, including letters and diaries, enriching these with interviews with wartime eyewitnesses, now in their 90s . . . Buruma describes heroic Berliners who sheltered Jews, despite the terrible danger, but heroism is rare, and most Germans, even sympathizers, refused . . . Richly complex, if often painful.” —Kirkus

“[A] far-reaching and masterly work . . . Drawing on letters, interviews, and archival research, this penetrating look into the lives and wartime experiences of Berliners will add a needed dimension to public and academic library collections.” Library Journal (starred review)

“Ian Buruma brings to life Berlin during World War II so vividly that you can imagine yourself blithely strolling the streets of the city or hunkering down in the bomb shelters. Buruma tapped a wealth of sources—not only published memoirs, but first-hand interviews with elderly survivors and a cache of letters stored in a tin written by Buruma's own father, a forced laborer in Berlin during the war. The beauty of the book is Buruma's nuanced writing about the Germans who weighed resistance against the imperative to stay alive, and those who simply became cogs in Hitler's murderous regime. As the author of the definitive book about post-Germany and Japan, The Wages of Guilt, Buruma is uniquely qualified to take on these still-relevant questions of morality.” —Barbara Demick, author of Daughters of the Bamboo Grove and Eat the Buddha

“In wartime Berlin it was possible to find every form of human behavior, from conformity and cruelty to bravery and indifference. Using his father's memories and letters as well as a wide range of other sources, Ian Buruma has composed a brilliant account of what it felt like to be there. Stay Alive is a beautifully written account of a city under military and moral siege." —Professor Anne Applebaum, author of Gulag: A History

“Ian Buruma, renowned for his enduring work about German and Japanese guilt and complicity during World War II, now adds a searing chronicle of wartime Berlin, told in part through the experience of his own Dutch father there. Beautifully written and deeply researched, Stay Alive is particularly haunting in showing how ordinary Germans conformed with Nazism and the persecution and deportation of their Jewish neighbors. It makes a chilling warning of how people can acquiesce and look away from the worst realities.” —Gary Bass, author of Judgment at Tokyo: World War II on Trial and the Making of Modern Asia

“An exceptional excursion into the multiple, contradictory lives, voices and dilemmas of Berlin’s inhabitants during the Nazi war years, almost hallucinatory in its incessant matter-of-factness. By providing a compelling and compulsive immersion into that crucial period of history, Buruma also eloquently reminds us of how, in our own time, the temptation to look away from persecution and injustice has terrifying consequences.” —Ariel Dorfman, author of Death and the Maiden and The Suicide Museum

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An astonishing account of life under a murderous regime amid a great city’s descent into utter annihilation

In 1939, when Ian Buruma’s epic opens, Berlin has been under Nazi rule for six years, and its 4.3 million people have made their accommodations to the regime, more or less. When war broke out with Poland in September, what was most striking at first was how little changed. Unless you were Jewish. Then life, already hard, was soon to get unfathomably worse.

Buruma gives tender attention to the Jewish experience in Berlin during the war, weaving its thread into the broader fabric of this marvelously rich and vivid mosaic of urban life. The distillation of a broad-gauged reckoning with a vast trove of primary sources, including a surprising number of interviews with living survivors, the book is a study in extremes—depravity and resilience, moral blindness and moral courage, pious bigotry and unchecked hedonism.

By 1943, with the German defeat at Stalingrad, ordinary life in Berlin would acquire an increasingly desperate cast. The last three years of the war in Berlin are truly a descent into hell, with a deranged regime in desperate free fall, an increasingly relentless pounding from Allied bombers, and the mounting dread of the approaching Soviet army. The common greeting of Berliners was now not “Auf wiedersehen” or “Heil Hitler” but “Bleiben Sie übrig”—“Stay alive.” And by war’s end Berlin’s population had fallen by almost half.

Among the people trying to stay alive in the city was Ian Buruma’s own father, a Dutch student conscripted into forced labor in the war economy along with 400,000 other imported workers. Buruma gives due weight to his and their experiences, which give the book a special added dimension. This is a book full of tenderness and genuine heroism, but it is by no means sentimental: again and again we see that most people do not do the hard thing most of the time. Most people go along. It’s a lesson that has not lost its timeliness.

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One

POLAND REJECTS PEACE!

POLISH ATTACKS ON THE REICH!!

RADIO GLEIWITZ OCCUPIED!

Headlines in the Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger, a popular Berlin newspaper, September 1, 1939

These were complete lies. The beginning of World War II began as a deadly theatrical performance staged by the SS. Hitler wanted to invade Poland, so an excuse had to be invented. Poles were cast as the aggressors. On the night of August 31, in an operation named "Grandmother Died," the Gleiwitz radio station on the German side of the Polish border was "attacked" by German agents disguised in Polish uniforms. A brief anti-German message was broadcast in Polish. To make the imaginary act of Polish aggression seem more plausible, the corpses of a few "Polish" attackers were left on the site. They were in fact murdered concentration camp prisoners dressed up as Poles.

Similar deceptions were staged at other places along the Polish-German border, an area where Polish-and German-speaking populations had been at home for centuries, not always amicably. In a place named Hochlinden, not far from Gleiwitz, a German customs post was attacked on the same night by a number of men in Polish army uniforms. (They also sported heavy beards and sideburns, to make them look more "Polish"-in German eyes, that is.) A show was made of repulsing the attack by men dressed up as German border guards. All of them were Nazi commandos. Again, a few unfortunate concentration camp prisoners were forced to play their roles as Polish soldiers killed in the make-believe skirmish. Photographs of the murdered men were sent to Berlin as evidence of Polish belligerence.

At ten o'clock, on the following night, Hitler, dressed in the grayish-green uniform of the German army, the Wehrmacht, made a speech to members of the Reichstag, a rubber-stamp parliament now hastily assembled in the Kroll Opera House in Berlin's Tiergarten district. Since the Reichstag building itself had been heavily damaged in 1933 by an arson attack that the Nazis might have staged themselves as an excuse to crack down on political opponents, the opera house now had to do. Many seats were empty, since their occupants were away on military duty. The stage, upon which great new music by Hindemith and Schoenberg had once been performed, now had a gaudy backdrop of a giant eagle with a swastika in its claws, flanked by massive red, white, and black Nazi flags. When Hitler's speech reached its sweaty, fist-shaking climax of screaming bombast, the uniformed delegates stomped and cheered like brawlers in a beer hall. Hitler claimed that Germany had had no choice but to respond to Polish hostility with maximum force. "This night," he barked, "for the first time, Polish regular soldiers fired on our territory. Since 5:45 a.m. we have been returning the fire, and from now on bombs will be met by bombs."

Hitler's speech was broadcast on the radio, and through loudspeakers in the streets. The Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger described the scene around the opera house: "The night of August 31 and September 1 was a short one for Berliners. . . . Long after midnight, thousands of people stood on Wilhelmplatz to be near their Führer, as they always do at decisive hours for the German Volk." The next day, warm late-summer weather had given way to gray skies. The city was relatively calm. People went about their normal business. By nightfall, however, "columns of SA [Brownshirts] and SS men came marching in to form an honor guard, and Berliners stood behind this brown and black honor guard to get a glimpse of the Führer and his loyal officials, and especially to hear his long-awaited speech to the Reichstag. . . . Every time one of the Nazi leaders was recognized by the crowd, he was greeted with a storm of applause." There was Field Marshal Hermann Goering, smirking in his black Mercedes with satin furnishing, holding his diamond-studded baton; and there was beetle-browed Rudolph Hess; and there was Joachim von Ribbentrop, the former champagne salesman now strutting around like a great statesman in a black SS uniform. The report continues: "The crowd became more excited by the minute until the Führer's car, followed by his entourage, left the chancellery. The crowd exploded in a terrific storm of cheers. On this fateful day for the German people, the Führer once again inspired the stormy passion of Berliners."

"Storm" (Sturm) and "stormy" (stürmisch), like "fanatical" (fanatisch), were among the most common clichés in the Nazi lexicon.

This report, too, was a lie. Witnesses to the event were struck by the empty streets, the sparse crowds, and an atmosphere of glum indifference, or tense foreboding. When the invasion of Poland, which failed to arouse the kind of "stormy" enthusiasm reported in the Nazi press, provoked declarations of war by Britain and France on September 3, the mood was even more anxious. The patriotic fervor that had greeted the early stages of World War I in 1914 was nowhere to be seen. William Shirer, Berlin correspondent for CBS radio, was there, on Wilhelmplatz, "when the loudspeakers suddenly announced that England had declared herself at war with Germany. Some two hundred and fifty people were standing there in the sun. They listened attentively to the announcement. When it was finished there was not a murmur. They just stood there as they were before. Stunned. The people cannot realize yet that Hitler has led them into a world war. No issue has been created for them yet, though as this day wears on, it is plain that 'Albion's perfidy' will become the issue, as it did in 1914."

And yet, it was different this time. In Shirer's words: "Today, no excitement, no hurrahs, no cheering, no throwing of flowers, no war fever, no war hysteria. There is not even hate for the French and British-despite Hitler's proclamations to the people, the party, the East Army, the West Army, accusing the 'English warmongers and capitalistic Jews' of starting this war."

Helmuth James von Moltke, a young lawyer, Prussian aristocrat, British on his mother's side, and a convinced anti-Nazi (for which he would pay with his life just months before the end of the war), wrote in a letter to his wife, Freya, that he had seen Nevile Henderson, the British ambassador, emerge from the German foreign office on Wilhelmstrasse on September 3, after Britain declared war: "There were about three hundred to four hundred people, but no sound of disapproval, no whistling, not a word to be heard; you felt that they might applaud any moment. Quite incomprehensible."

These are of course just impressions. Quite what most Berliners really thought at the time is hard to know. Berlin was a cosmopolitan city, full of leftists, artists, radicals, and minorities. Hitler never trusted Berliners. And many Berliners didn't trust him, or indeed any central authority bossing them around. But since 1933, they were not free to talk, and there were obviously no opinion polls. There were convinced Nazis and Hitler worshippers, as well as many people who tried to get along by keeping their heads down. There were Berliners who hated everything about the Nazis, and a tiny number who would risk everything to actively resist them.

I used to know an eccentric figure in Berlin named Nicolaus Sombart. A sociologist, a dandy, a Francophile, and a literary man-about-town, he became best known in Berlin cultural circles in the 1980s and '90s for his Sunday afternoon salons, where tea and cakes were served in the spacious drawing room of his nineteenth-century apartment filled with heavy oak furniture and thick rugs on the parquet floor. One might meet scholars, celebrated novelists, artists, and pretty young women, often of Russian or Eastern European origin. His father, Werner Sombart, had been a famous academic star of late nineteenth- and early twentieth-century Germany, whose conservative critiques of capitalism, which he associated with the "Jewish spirit," helped prepare the way for National Socialism, even though Professor Sombart himself was far too refined and fastidious to join the ranks of what he saw as a crude and plebeian movement. To his son, Nicolaus, Werner Sombart represented the finest intellectual tradition of pre-Nazi Germany, a tradition of musical, artistic, and academic excellence carried by the cultivated upper-middle-class.

The first day of war was still vivid in Nicolaus's mind. He and his fellow pupils of a posh Gymnasium, or grammar school, listened to a patriotic speech by the school principal, followed by raised arms and cries of "Sieg Heil!" The pupils were then dismissed to enjoy the day off. Nicolaus rushed up the wooden stairs of his family home to his father's study. The venerable scholar was surprised to see his son back so early. The boy could barely contain his excitement; he was bursting to tell his father the news: "Hitler has declared war on Poland. Our German army has been marching into Poland since this morning!" Whereupon, the old man slowly removed his pince-nez. "Do you realize what this means?" "Of course," Nicolaus replied, "it means victory." A long silence. His father shook his head: "It means the end of Germany."

Nicolaus claimed that his father's reaction was typical of most people in the comfortable suburb of Berlin where they lived. Grunewald, with its huge fin de siècle villas, some built in the style of Gothic castles or mock Tudor manor houses, and its fine woods and lovely lakes, was a place where famous professors felt at home, as well as diplomats, bankers, and wealthy businessmen, quite a few of whom were of Jewish origin. The Jewish industrialist and statesman Walther Rathenau had lived in Grunewald, in a grand pastel-colored classicist villa. He was assassinated by right-wing fanatics in 1922, while being driven down Königsallee in his open car. Grunewald station, with its replica of a rustic nineteenth-century gate, was where the Jews of Berlin would be pushed onto the trains bound for the death camps in Poland, after being marched through the pleasant tree-lined streets. These marches took place in clear sight of the people who lived in the area, some of whom would have read newspaper articles such as this one in the Berliner Lokal-Anzeiger of September 19, 1939. "The Jews' War!" was the headline. It continued in the clichéd style of newspaper propaganda: "It has become an open secret that world Jewry and international high finance pushed us into a world war which they secretly caused. . . . Germany must declare a merciless war on our number one archenemy, and let one thing be very clear: We will wage this war . . ."

No doubt, some people in Grunewald despaired like Werner Sombart. Nicolaus had already witnessed how Jewish schoolmates suddenly vanished after 1938, when Jews were no longer allowed to attend public schools. He saw the For Sale signs in front of houses whose inhabitants had had to leave precipitously. Fine real estate was often grabbed for nothing, or for a pittance, by Nazi bosses. (Some of these same houses are now the property of hugely wealthy Russian oligarchs.) Once-great gardens had gone to seed. Certain family friends no longer came to the tea parties held by Nicolaus's mother on Sunday afternoons. The more fortunate ones were now in London, or Paris, or New York. Since April 1939, Berlin Jews had been forced to live in designated "Jew houses" (Judenhaüser), stuffed into tiny sordid apartments shared with other families. One of them was a relative of mine, named Hedwig Ems ("Tante Hedwig"), who, like other Jews in Berlin, was also ordered to hand over personal possessions, such as electrical appliances, artworks, furs, radios, silver, and gold. (An exception was made for gold tooth fillings, which were, so far, exempted.) In some cases, friends and neighbors offered to take care of these items, even if they had no room for them. Fine Persian carpets were kept in garden sheds and silver candelabras in dank cellars. Only rarely did these possessions ever find their way back into the hands of the original owners. And much of this happened even before German troops left for Poland in railway carriages bearing slogans daubed in white paint that read "Leaving for Poland, to kick the Jews."



Ruth Andreas-Friedrich, a journalist, not Jewish, was editing a magazine for young women when the war broke out. In her circle of friends-doctors, lawyers, journalists, musicians, writers, all solid members of the German upper bourgeoisie-there were quite a few "undesirables" in Nazi eyes. Her partner since 1931, the Russian German orchestra conductor Leo Borchard, who had once conducted the Berlin Philharmonic, was banned from performing in 1935: "politically unreliable." In 1938, Andreas-Friedrich, Borchard, and a circle of friends had formed a resistance group called Uncle Emil. Their main task was to protect Jews and help them escape. On September 1, the couple was invited over for tea by a lawyer, named Günther Flamm. Flamm, too, had been deprived of his job as an "unreliable." Like Borchard, he had to make ends meet as a private teacher. Flamm was in a somber mood. "This is going to be a long war," he said. "Heaven knows who'll be left alive at the end." "Certainly not Mr. Hitler," said Ruth. "What good will that do us," said Flamm, "if we bite the dust before he does?"

In Dahlem, another wealthy suburb, not so far from the comfortable Sombart residence in Grunewald, lived Christabel Bielenberg, an upper-class British woman (her mother was the sister of Alfred Harmsworth, 1st Viscount Northcliffe, the newspaper tycoon). After marrying a German lawyer named Peter Bielenberg in 1934, just a year after Hitler seized power, she became a German citizen. Both she and her husband were anti-Nazis, and friends of Helmuth von Moltke. She wrote in her memoir: "On the night after hearing that war had broken out between England and Germany I could not sleep." She felt very alone, "having somehow landed myself rather precariously straddling a fence. I was not apprehensive, life had been too good to me for that. I knew too that I was blessed with natural optimism and that my own interpretation of a simple Christian upbringing had provided me with a sturdy conviction as to the ultimate triumph of good over evil. In national terms, I had the sneaking feeling that by 'good' I had things British in mind, by 'evil' any foreigner stupid enough to dispute the matter." One didn't necessarily have to be British-born to have similar feelings.

Heinz "Coco" Schumann was a young guitarist with a great love of jazz, which Nazis tried to ban as "Niggermusik," an art form that supposedly presented a severe threat to the healthy morals of the German Volk. That his mother was Jewish would not necessarily have been a fatal problem, but because his Gentile father converted to the Jewish faith, the son was counted as a so-called Geltungsjude, a child of a mixed marriage who was classified as a Jew.

Author

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Ian Buruma was born in the Netherlands. He studied Chinese at Leiden University and cinema at Nihon University, Tokyo. He has lived and worked in Tokyo, Hong Kong, London, and New York. He is a regular contributor to Harper’s and The New Yorker and writes monthly columns for Project Syndicate. He is a professor at Bard College and lives in New York City. View titles by Ian Buruma

Praise

“An immersive account . . . [A] wonderfully nuanced book.” The Guardian

“Buruma, professor at Bard College and author of Year Zero: A History of 1945 (2013), has a personal interest in the subject of his latest book: His father spent two years in Berlin, compelled to join 400,000 foreign factory workers, poorly fed and housed but paid a small salary. Buruma draws on a rich source of material, including letters and diaries, enriching these with interviews with wartime eyewitnesses, now in their 90s . . . Buruma describes heroic Berliners who sheltered Jews, despite the terrible danger, but heroism is rare, and most Germans, even sympathizers, refused . . . Richly complex, if often painful.” —Kirkus

“[A] far-reaching and masterly work . . . Drawing on letters, interviews, and archival research, this penetrating look into the lives and wartime experiences of Berliners will add a needed dimension to public and academic library collections.” Library Journal (starred review)

“Ian Buruma brings to life Berlin during World War II so vividly that you can imagine yourself blithely strolling the streets of the city or hunkering down in the bomb shelters. Buruma tapped a wealth of sources—not only published memoirs, but first-hand interviews with elderly survivors and a cache of letters stored in a tin written by Buruma's own father, a forced laborer in Berlin during the war. The beauty of the book is Buruma's nuanced writing about the Germans who weighed resistance against the imperative to stay alive, and those who simply became cogs in Hitler's murderous regime. As the author of the definitive book about post-Germany and Japan, The Wages of Guilt, Buruma is uniquely qualified to take on these still-relevant questions of morality.” —Barbara Demick, author of Daughters of the Bamboo Grove and Eat the Buddha

“In wartime Berlin it was possible to find every form of human behavior, from conformity and cruelty to bravery and indifference. Using his father's memories and letters as well as a wide range of other sources, Ian Buruma has composed a brilliant account of what it felt like to be there. Stay Alive is a beautifully written account of a city under military and moral siege." —Professor Anne Applebaum, author of Gulag: A History

“Ian Buruma, renowned for his enduring work about German and Japanese guilt and complicity during World War II, now adds a searing chronicle of wartime Berlin, told in part through the experience of his own Dutch father there. Beautifully written and deeply researched, Stay Alive is particularly haunting in showing how ordinary Germans conformed with Nazism and the persecution and deportation of their Jewish neighbors. It makes a chilling warning of how people can acquiesce and look away from the worst realities.” —Gary Bass, author of Judgment at Tokyo: World War II on Trial and the Making of Modern Asia

“An exceptional excursion into the multiple, contradictory lives, voices and dilemmas of Berlin’s inhabitants during the Nazi war years, almost hallucinatory in its incessant matter-of-factness. By providing a compelling and compulsive immersion into that crucial period of history, Buruma also eloquently reminds us of how, in our own time, the temptation to look away from persecution and injustice has terrifying consequences.” —Ariel Dorfman, author of Death and the Maiden and The Suicide Museum

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